Pornography can really impact your life in a positive way if you don’t overdo yourself. It arouses various fantasies in your mind. You can share it with your partner and have fun together because you won’t enjoy it alone more than you will with your partner. You can research alt porn and choose from a variety of options from different sub-cultures like goth, punks, ravers, skaters, etc.
You both can discuss with each other and choose one theme that you are both comfortable in. There are many types of fantasies that you can come acrossand fulfill them easily. You just need to have the passion for each other and consent of each other to try different things to pleasure your partner.
Some fantasies that you can consider
Dominance-It is a very common fantasy among people. Dominance basically means to control the other person in sexual intimate ways; like giving instructions to strip or do something to pleasure you. You might develop a new level of understanding with your partner through this type of action. You can take turns to dominate each other; this way you can explore the possibilities of exploring each other in more ways than you can imagine.
Strip-tease-You can add a touch of music to the whole intimate environment and make it more romantic if you don’t want blatant intimate action. Dancing and strip-teasing in front of your partner will arouse him/her more than you can think of. This will be a more interesting act than just plain sex.
Recordings-If you are doing role-play before going into action, you can record the entire act. You can later watch it together and enjoy it. You can also find some mistakes while watching the recording and improve yourselves in your next act. But make sure to keep the recording very safe so that it does not reach anyone else; you would never want that.